With every new generation comes a new era of pop nostalgia, and Americans seem to have a special knack for resurrecting the best of every decade while conveniently forgetting about the worst.
Take the 1960s: We took from that decade tie-dyed clothes, hippie/hipster slang (“Groovy, baby! Far out!”) and arguably some of the best rock โnโ roll music ever made. Forgotten amidst the rose-colored memories of free love are the drugs and alcohol that killed some of our best rock musicians young. Many of us have forgotten the struggles of the civil rights moment, and we forget that racial tensions still exist and that terms like โhate crimeโ and โaffirmative actionโ are still necessary.

From the 1970s, we took bell bottoms and a new appreciation for polyester. Disco, once reviled, is now freely sampled into our favorite hip-hop and pop tracks. Britney Spears wears โ70s rock-style muscle shirts while singing with Aerosmith at the Super Bowl, and the British Invasion is again storming our shopping malls. Meanwhile, veterans of that infamous โpolice actionโ in Vietnam still beg on our streets and sleep in our parks, their flashbacks of a horrific war now turned into comedy fodder.
Most recently, the high fashion and music industries have renewed a love of the 1980s. New Wave music is spawning not just a retro night at your local nightclub, but whole nightclubs. Pick up any fashion magazine and learn that shoulder pads are back, and preppy pink shirts with skinny belts are the epitome of cool. Weโve forgotten the disdain we once professed for the politics of greed and conspicuous consumerism. Weโve even gone so dangerously far as to believe that AIDS is no longer a disease to be feared, a mindset increasingly being described as โAIDS complacency.โ
But no era has survived the tide of popular opinion as well as the 1950s, with its shiny cars, its peppy music and its cheerful Leave It to Beaver veneer. Ironically, out of all the decades mentioned here, the 1950s may have the most skeletons in the closet.

The role models for women in the โ50s were June Cleaver and Donna Reed, women who embodied the perfect wife and mother. Many women didnโt find domestic life either fun or fulfilling, yet they hid this guilty secret behind lavish family dinners and endless layers of hair spray. For a woman to admit that she wanted something more than a brand new dishwasherโsay, a job and/or an educationโwould be to admit that she was a failure as a woman.
The 1950s signaled the start of the Cold War and a decade of fear led by Sen. Joseph McCarthy. This country, founded on political and religious freedom, was now fueled by paranoia, and some eagerly sought to expel, jail and even execute โthose pinko commies.โ One didnโt even have to be in the Communist Partyโto be suspected was enough to destroy your livelihood.
And lest we forget, our happy collective memories of the 1950s are really the memories of a privileged class: white, educated and suburban. For minorities, the โ50s were a decade of overt racism and a revival of the Ku Klux Klan. Elvis gained his fame and fortune in the โ50s by co-opting the music of Black America, while black musicians were segregated out of Elvisโ white hotels and restaurants.
As we gear up to celebrate yet another Hot August Nights, the ease with which we forget the pain of the past disturbs me. This week, I will not drown the โ50s in a vanilla Coke or hide my head under the hood of a โ57 Chevy. Instead, I will continue living in the present and working toward the future.
I may join you in remembering the past, but Iโll remember the mistakes, too, and hope that we stop repeating them.
